Your ex girlfriend s qualities - a possible threat to your present relationship

You are out from a long time relationship; no

matter if she left you or you have left her. You

are free now to do what you want and to meet who

you want, when you want.

After a while you feel that you are ready to get

in a new relationship. You even have met a nice

girl who looks like she is interested in you.

Slowly, things are getting more serious and you

get to know better your new partner.

But something is bothering you, and you don't

know what it is. Than you realize that she is not

doing things like you were used to be done, she

is not doing things like your ex used to make

them (it's not about all things, but those you

loved at your ex).

Last days I have met a friend of mine I haven't

seen for a long time. It was a surprise for me

when a nice girl comes to us, and he has

introduced her like his girlfriend. I didn't know

that he has broken up with his ex, which is a

very sexy, feminine woman.

After, his new girlfriend left, I asked my friend

what happened with his ex and how things are

going in his new relationship. He told me that he’

s in this new relationship for over 7 months, his

girlfriend is a nice woman and he has nothing to

blame her.

But, something is missing. He was used to be with

a very feminine woman, which enjoyed her woman

qualities all the time. He confessed me that it

is very difficult for him to get used to live

without some things which he has experimented

before and he knows that does exist.

He also told me something that made me smile: 'If

I could take my ex qualities and put them next to

my new partner's qualities I would make the

perfect women for me.' :)

But how good it could be if we would be able to

make the perfect woman? Not so good as we all

think, believe me. I say it all the time,

perfection is boring.

However, a person after a breakup has to think

mostly to the reasons for the breakup with his ex

and not to her qualities. I am sure that you have

very good reasons to break up with a person which

who you have spend years together.

Relief you from your past relationship and let

your new girlfriend make you happy in her own way.

Learn to enjoy your girl’s qualities and

personality and don't make your ex girlfriend’s

qualities a problem for your present or future

relationships.